SO INSPIRED today. It was my first day back to school. My second year of acupuncture school! And now, onward to bigger and better things, like MORE CLINIC SHIFTS! Days like today, after I saw my patient this morning and she seemed so much more comfortable and at ease after our treatment, that I am reminded why I am doing what I am doing. That everything in my life has led up to this and if I can put someone just an inch more at ease than they were when they walked into the room, I feel like I have done something right. I feel so grateful.
Today one of my teachers showed us a Ted Talk called, “The Danger of the Single Story”. The whole time I’m thinking WOW, this woman is on fire! She so eloquently states this idea of how we lessen our possibilities of greater happiness and understanding of the world because our thinking can be so narrow. I often hear from family, friends, clients something that resembles this ‘single story’ idea – we get caught up in our stories of what we believe is Truth, sometimes they are about physical or emotional pain, maybe stereotypes we have of others, or insecurities we have about ourselves. For example, if you struggle with feelings of sadness or unworthiness and you keep telling yourself, “I cannot overcome this. This is who I am; what I am.” The truth is, this is only a piece of you, not ALL of you.
Another example could be a physical ailment that is very consuming in your life. Your doctor has prescribed you with “X” and so you get prescription “Y” to cure it. Everything you do revolves around this disease – how you relate to people and how you function in the world. How you eat and sleep. But this doesn’t have to be all to it.
The danger of this “single story” idea is that we tell ourselves that this idea is the way that it is, nothing will change, we will not move forward or heal. But what if you expanded your way of thinking? Chimamanda says that these single stories are just part of the story, and that there is often so much more that we are refusing to see. When this single story becomes your ONLY story, then you are missing out on the greatness that can be.
Please watch and I give you permission to stand up and applaud afterward. I pretty much did.